What if you prayed for your marriage or future spouse that God heals them from past traumas causing frustration in their present...
How much would that strengthen your relationship now and in the future? What if someone prayed for them as if they were their brother or sister? What if that someone was you?
Consider the effect past trauma or dysfunction has had on your current relationship. We get it; It may be rough right now. However, prayer is essential to you both experiencing wholeness and reconciliation.